About me...

I am a pretty normal man. I'd like to think I am very stable however being married has called that into question.

I work a regular 9-5.
I'm 30 something.
I'm white/caucasian
I stay in pretty good shape... no beer gut, extra chins, etc...
I've always been called handsome (and not just by my mother)
I make more money than the average American, but am by no means wealthy.

I'm Joe the fucking Plumber... only my name isn't Joe and I'm not a plumber.

I've ALWAYS gotten along well with other people. People tend to like me.

I've been married for roughly 10 years. Like many, my marriage has had its share of tests and stumbling blocks. It is in no way, shape or form a "perfect" marriage. Such a thing, I'm convinced does not exist.

I've never cheated on my wife. I don't hit or abuse her.

I have a 3 year old daughter and 1 on the way. I know what you are thinking... "if your marriage is so fucked up, why are you having another kid???". My marriage isn't really "fucked up". It's just that marriage is hard. I don't ever intend on getting a divorce, nor does she. That being said... if we had no children, divorce may be an option for both of us. However, if we had no children, many of our marital issues would be non-existent. So... maybe my marriage is fucked up. Who knows? See!!! See what marriage has done to me?

Anyway, I am from a broken home. My wife is from a broken home. I'll assume that that is a major factor on our marital issues (at least that is what my Psychologist tells me).

Oh yea... I currently see a Psychologist 4 times a month to help me deal with my wife. Quite frankly, I think it is my wife that needs to see a Psychologist, but since she won't...

And that is pretty much where I am coming from.

As I blog, more info will come out about me. I'm going to try to keep it pretty vague though so as to not give too much info.

My next entry will be about a recent fight.